points tO pOnder..

when people respect you as a person, they admire you..
when people respect you as a friend,they love you..
when people respect you as a leader, they follow you..

leaders are not dictators, they initiate.. they do the first step in everything..
when everyone seem to be negative, the leader goes positive...
when everyone seem to lose hope, the leader sees the bright future...

boss says "you do this,"
leader says "let's do this"

in tough situation, the boss says "you check that out",
the leader says "follow me"

they are followed for their courage-overcoming fear...
they are followed for their wisdom-source of knowledge..