motives...

its fine to dream big,.. fine to become a leader...
its fine to like something, like someone..
it is what motivates you that causes the trap...
someone askd me during our cellgrOup at ust.. "is it bad to have romantic feelings for someone?"
liking someone, having crushes is NATURAL! GOD gave that to US! for us to LEARN how tO LOVE!.. what mAKes it BAD is WHERE we use it, tO WHOM, WHEN, HOW...
exmple.. "why do we make friends with that person...? jst to win him/her?..,
why do we call him/her?.. why do we ask too much about him/her?.."
as long as ur intentions are good,it's fine... do not be mastered by anything... everything is permissible but not everything is beneficial.. dont confuse urself wid it, dont think about it too much, for u will find urself trapped by ur thoughts! dont play with ur thoughts,for ul find urself tired and drained... be urself, check ur motives in everything u do.. be urself... im speaking for myself too..
how funny,it happened to me days ago,dint know that il be ministering to someone this week related to my experience,not that im having feelings,..but people have distracted me, making me cautious,so cautious,as in, i decidd to settle it up,haaay,good thing.. its settled...how funny.. GOd really is so cute!harhar!