which is better?

which is better?...

To try it and fail,and have some chance of succeeding but atleast learn from whatever result

OR just wait until everything is almost settled,then you get to pick, or court someone?

Me?, i'd rather save myself for the best. she's worth it.

we can learn even without trying "puppy relationship", how?..
well, to me, being with your love one is actually never a choice of either separating from him/her because of something but it's more on DEALING what has to be changed to keep the relationship going.
You're never individuals anymore, you were made as ONE, so it's a matter of changing and working things out, and NEVER a CHOICE of separating or whatever...
that's why i kept believing that EXPERIENCE is never the GREAT LESSON. but will help alot.
PRUDENCE, WISDOM is the GREAT LESSON. Why would GOD preach about Wisdom and Prudence if only through experience can we learn true LOVE?,

TRUE LOVE is never simple, it is always special, and we have to see it something as we can grab and never let go of. it's very important to know at the very first time you meet "LOVE" that you really LOVE him/her, because it's a commitment. And if you let go of it, chances are you learn, or you may treat it as somewhat like "feelings". BUT it's never just like "feelings", it's a commitment.

As for me, since i was born, I was already set by God, prepared by Him, He even planned how we will meet, he planned how many kids we'll have. either boys or girls or whatever..hehe, where we'll live... SO, why should i settle for a "try-out relationship"?... i'll wait for HER. she's prepared by GOD anyway, so i believed she's the BEST!... the BEST deserves my BEST. the BEST is UNIQUE, and will never be compared... i just treasure her so much,... by the way, she's "UNKNOWN".. =)

I'm far from meeting her?!. i dOnt know, and i have no idea who..haha.. but im secured! halelu!...
and i do keep praying for her health, good relationship as well,(i dont want her to be with other guys-SHES MINE!)hehe, i pray for our future family too!.., to her, haay, i'll wait for you, YOU'RE MINE!... =) i made one solo,private blog just for YOU!... =)

I WROTE THIS, not to brag... but to INSPIRE each of you, to keep everything as special as it should be... treat them with so much value, like as if she's/He's your first AND last. so then, wait, or if you are into it,... pray that everything will go great and stronger...

bless your future up ahead... =) it's an investment, there's a reward by God,
and God will be much happy when you learn to pray for your love one..hehe

hava gudei amigos!

God bless you!

jr