When things go wrong...

Why do things go wrong?

Wait, since, some asked me to give opinion about other topics, well...
this is my opinion about:
Why do things go wrong

We rarely see people who feel happy when they go through wrong, bad situations... most of us, get mad, we regret... but practically speaking, it won't do good since it happened already. but it does help us to try better next time we face it. or it helps us to feel bad about making mistakes, then we prepare and make sure we're ready to face it the next time.

Why do things go wrong?

Some people ask themselves, why do things go wrong? Do I deserve this?
If you experience bad situations, never your fault, then, BE HAPPY with it! hehe
why? you know why?...
because "GOD won't give anything beyond what you can bear".
it only means that He trusts you and believes in you, sees your potential.
He stretches you out, He brings out the best in you.

That's when God wants us to come to Him for greater strength.
Why would He give a challenge that we can do solo without Him?
He loves to show His greatness, His Love as a Father, etc.

One of the reasons why it happens...
God draws out the bigger picture of what you can BE, what you can HAVE, what you can DO the next time it happens. try thinking about your failure, it just reminds you to become better nextime.

FAILURE has two endings, either you QUIT or ACHIEVE.
We see ourselves, the REAL McCoy, the TRUTH about our ATTITUDE,
We begin to ask ourselves, Will I still go after I fail? Or is it a SIGN that i just can't do it?
We begin to understand who we are.

Why do things go wrong?
Maybe, just a mere mistake of someone, or yours...
But on the other side, the reason most likely will be, because GOD allows ut to see OURSELVES
if we are quitters or achievers.

But one thing for sure, those who persevere to fulfill HIS WILL will never end as failure.
There is always HOPE, for "HOPE is a CHOICE"....

Go on, don't let emotions drag you, pull you down, or don't let anything put you down,
when you strongly believe that it's GOD's will, then, GO!...
If God is for you, who can then be against you!?...

Why do things go wrong?
For you to have deeper understanding and become a better person no matter how unfair it may look. IT's a CHOICE to win, IT's a CHOICE to COME BACK after failing.

Go for it.

which is better?

which is better?...

To try it and fail,and have some chance of succeeding but atleast learn from whatever result

OR just wait until everything is almost settled,then you get to pick, or court someone?

Me?, i'd rather save myself for the best. she's worth it.

we can learn even without trying "puppy relationship", how?..
well, to me, being with your love one is actually never a choice of either separating from him/her because of something but it's more on DEALING what has to be changed to keep the relationship going.
You're never individuals anymore, you were made as ONE, so it's a matter of changing and working things out, and NEVER a CHOICE of separating or whatever...
that's why i kept believing that EXPERIENCE is never the GREAT LESSON. but will help alot.
PRUDENCE, WISDOM is the GREAT LESSON. Why would GOD preach about Wisdom and Prudence if only through experience can we learn true LOVE?,

TRUE LOVE is never simple, it is always special, and we have to see it something as we can grab and never let go of. it's very important to know at the very first time you meet "LOVE" that you really LOVE him/her, because it's a commitment. And if you let go of it, chances are you learn, or you may treat it as somewhat like "feelings". BUT it's never just like "feelings", it's a commitment.

As for me, since i was born, I was already set by God, prepared by Him, He even planned how we will meet, he planned how many kids we'll have. either boys or girls or whatever..hehe, where we'll live... SO, why should i settle for a "try-out relationship"?... i'll wait for HER. she's prepared by GOD anyway, so i believed she's the BEST!... the BEST deserves my BEST. the BEST is UNIQUE, and will never be compared... i just treasure her so much,... by the way, she's "UNKNOWN".. =)

I'm far from meeting her?!. i dOnt know, and i have no idea who..haha.. but im secured! halelu!...
and i do keep praying for her health, good relationship as well,(i dont want her to be with other guys-SHES MINE!)hehe, i pray for our future family too!.., to her, haay, i'll wait for you, YOU'RE MINE!... =) i made one solo,private blog just for YOU!... =)

I WROTE THIS, not to brag... but to INSPIRE each of you, to keep everything as special as it should be... treat them with so much value, like as if she's/He's your first AND last. so then, wait, or if you are into it,... pray that everything will go great and stronger...

bless your future up ahead... =) it's an investment, there's a reward by God,
and God will be much happy when you learn to pray for your love one..hehe

hava gudei amigos!

God bless you!

jr

recharged

SHOUT UNTO GOD WITH A VOICE of TRIUMPH..
SHOUT UNTO GOD WITH A VOICE A PRAISE...
SHOUT UNTO GOD WITH A VOICE OF TRIUMPH..
WE LIFT YOUR NAME UP...
WE LIFT YOUR NAME UP!..

TRUE LOVE..my view

True Love...

It will always wait. It perseveres. It understands the timing of the true and real love we can ever have...

RIGHT-TIMING is what makes everything work with such greatER romance, impact, appreciation..

RIGHT-PERSON is the PURPOSE of true Love..


It is more than just loving.. It takes understanding of how deep love is for someone falling in love...

Love is attraction, but attraction is never love at all times.

Love is true to anyone. Ayone can love truthfully, but not everyone can love faithfully.. why!?


There they say, " Follow your heart".. tsss..stupidity..hehehe

But I believe it is "GUARD your heart" -
DECEPTION does not attack the mind..but the HEART!

In a Man's heart even himself can't fully understand what it wants, how true it is, how sincere it is...
There's more than just feeling it from the heart, we have the mind to weigh everything...
Ears to use for listening..to WISE counsel, and NOT JUST FRIENDS?!.. what good is it for a man to seek counsel from an ordinary man?!.. better choose the wisest you could ever find..right?

TRUE LOVE everyone has, but who is wise and faithful to have it forever?.. me?..not even me,..
GOD himself is.. through Him, I can be.. you can be...

in short, "GUARD your HEART by HIS WILL" then you'll find the TRUE LOVE, and that pleasing relationship you always wanted... God has it.. you want proof?.. ask Him to show you nalang.. God bless!...

To my dearest...loving...lala...

Hi!, I wonder what you're doing now... I hope you're doing great at work,..
You were always responsible since the start... I am proud of you...

Just want to tell you how much i love you... I miss you so much..
Every single moment I dream being with you...
Just seeing you makes me smile, I like you in many ways...countless...
I'm always excited to see you, watch you do simple things, or anything...

I wonder what you'll be in couple of years...
I wonder when we'll finally meet... I'm sure it's gonna be sooo romantic..hehe
It would even make me cry..hihi
I'll prepare myself as of now, that you'll be happy and satisfied to see me...
kinda like "love at first sight"..hurray!
I wonder who you are anyway,.. ..?
I still don't know you but i love you more than you ever know...
you're marked in my heart even now... God bless you my girl.

the wise are the humble ones...

"Pride leads to conflict, those who take advise are wise..."
"The prudent understand where they are goiing..."
"Only simpletons believe everything they're told,
The prudent carefully consider their steps..."

Humility opens the heart to truth,
Humility opens the heart to painful reality which can set us free from
bilndness of what we believed was true...
Humility is the key to obtaining wisdom,..
Humility is the key to Understanding inspite of all odds...

The Godly..

Godliness guards the path of the blameless,
but the evil are misled by SIN,.. prov 13:6,

the Godly shall walk confident and victorious through hardships...,
the Glory of God is reflected, His Victory seen in the life of the Godly at ALL TIMES...

RISE UP when you're pressed down by the evil, for you will never be CRUSHED...
God is on our side, WHO can be against us?.. evil?..nah... He's been defeated even before the WORLD began... God is everything....

Nelson Mandela,..the influence

NELSON MANDELA:

Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate,
Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.

It is our light not our darkness that most frighten us
Your playing small does not serve the world,
there is nothing lighting about shrinking
so that other people won't feel insecure around you...

we are all meant to shine as children do

Its not just in some of us, its in everyone..
and as we let our own light shine,
WE UNCONCIOUSLY give other people permission to do the same
as we are liberated from our own fear...

OUR PRESENCE AUTOMATICALLY LIBERATES OTHERS... 1994

memories...

Those whose trust is in you shall wait joyfully...
Your promise will ever make them secured...confident
Your faithfulness will ever make them persevere, they know what's at the end...

my house shall be filled with triumphant songs...
Praise and Worship offered by my chosen one...

I will treasure your words in my heart
I will consistently listen and obey you
I will be strengthened at all situations
My God is all I ever need.

All you've shown me has amazed everyone
Your sacrifice no man could ever offer
Your unfailing love, faithfulness only you can give

My chosen ones shall be filled with triumphant songs
For they know who I AM, and who THEY ARE IN ME...

Be blessed when God is your God, When my Father is your Father..
You just dint gain the world but EVERYTHING.