things happen

Sometimes, things happen for no reason, sometimes, things happen for reason. Either way, the most important is we grow and learn to be mature and comit to doing the right thing the next time it comes our way.
It is very important to see each other's shortcoming and anticipate what sort of adjustment we need to make, rather than just trying to be perfect in everything.
The more we achieve to be perfect, the more pressure we make. It is good but there are other ways to make our life more enjoyable and prosperous.
I believe we are not created to be perfect but to be excellent. There's no way we can be perfect and for that case, we will always face conflicts which I believe is part of life.

How do we deal with conflicts? Do we think about the other's feelings?
It is important to see both parties and give respect on both's perspective about things for this will explain more why conflict happened.

Conflicts could either be helpful or painful. One way or the other it can always turn out to be good if we decide to make it good. Bottom line: Nothing should be based on EMOTION but DECISION..